Your own intuition is usually a good indicator that your spouse is cheating. You can tell that something is wrong and if you think that he is cheating, the chances are that you are right. Yet, here are 5 signs that can help you decide if your intuition is on point:
You will be the best judge of this, knowing both of your schedules, and every couple is different on how much intimacy goes on. Obviously with new born babies, intimacy is going to be significantly reduced, as both new mom and dad are going to be exhausted by the new family addition. However, if your sex life with your spouse has dwindled — for no reason, this is a sign that he is cheating.
To keep their secret and their affair undiscovered, many men will start to shut themselves down so that they are not contacting you. This could be no more kiss good night, no more spooning and cuddling, or maybe he is starting to ignore your phone calls. Whatever it is, less contact where there is no reason for it is an indicator of an affair.
Do you feel that your husband is being more critical of you? This method is to divert the things he is doing wrong onto you– that you are doing things wrong too. A friend of mine that caught her spouse cheating said that her husband told her she was “folding the laundry wrong.” He hadn’t folded the laundry at any point during their 7 year marriage and he had never complained or noted this “wrong-doing” ever.
These overly critical remarks can sometimes be ways to start a fight with you. This is a way that contact and communication is limited. If you are mad at him, you wont talk to him and vice versa. Also, by fighting with you, he is able to justify his affair.
Is your husband spending more time “working late at the office?” Or, maybe his friends start calling and taking him out for all nighters? If he is traveling for work or business, that is one thing. But to choose to be away from home more often than not is an issue.
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